{"id":26692,"date":"2013-11-07T01:59:13","date_gmt":"2013-11-07T06:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=26692"},"modified":"2013-11-07T01:59:13","modified_gmt":"2013-11-07T06:59:13","slug":"soykirimin-hafizasi-kadinlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akunq.net\/turkish\/2013\/11\/07\/soykirimin-hafizasi-kadinlar\/","title":{"rendered":"Soyk\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n Haf\u0131zas\u0131 Kad\u0131nlar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b><a href=\"http:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Arda-ve-Doris-Melkonyan.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-26693\" alt=\"Arda ve Doris Melkonyan\" src=\"http:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Arda-ve-Doris-Melkonyan-300x155.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"155\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bianet.org\/yazar\/cicek-tahaoglu\">\u00c7i\u00e7ek TAHAO\u011eLU<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b><i>Arda ve Doris Melkonyan ile bulu\u015fup, soyk\u0131r\u0131mda hayatta kalan Ermeni kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 konu\u015ftuk.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Ermeniler konferans\u0131 i\u00e7in T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye gelen Arda ve Doris Melkonyan ile bulu\u015fup, soyk\u0131r\u0131mda hayatta kalan Ermeni kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 konu\u015ftuk.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye daha \u00f6nce hem gezi ama\u00e7l\u0131 hem de \u00e7e\u015fitli konferanslar i\u00e7in gelmi\u015fler. Hatta T\u00fcrk\u00e7e de biliyorlar ama \u201cBizim bildi\u011fimiz T\u00fcrk\u00e7e ile sizin konu\u015ftu\u011funuz \u00e7ok farkl\u0131\u201d diyorlar g\u00fclerek. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019yi, 1915\u2019te sa\u011f kalmay\u0131 ba\u015faran ve Ermenice bilmeyen dedeleriyle ileti\u015fim kurabilmek i\u00e7in \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Dedeleri Natan soyk\u0131r\u0131m s\u0131ras\u0131nda 10 ya\u015f\u0131ndaym\u0131\u015f. Ama ufak tefek bir yap\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011fundan, onu daha gen\u00e7 zannetmi\u015fler ve b\u00f6ylece \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmekten kurtulmu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Natan\u2019\u0131n yedi karde\u015fi daha varm\u0131\u015f. Erkek karde\u015flerinden d\u00f6rd\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, ikisi ka\u00e7may\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f ve biri New York\u2019a biri G\u00fcney Amerika\u2019ya yerle\u015fmi\u015f. Natan ve k\u0131z karde\u015fi ise T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de M\u00fcsl\u00fcman aileler taraf\u0131ndan evlat edinilmi\u015f ve birbirlerinin izini kaybetmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Birka\u00e7 y\u0131l sonra, Natan eve malzeme almak i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u0131z karde\u015fiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015f. \u0130lk ba\u015fta birbirlerini tan\u0131mam\u0131\u015flar birazc\u0131k konu\u015funca karde\u015f olduklar\u0131n\u0131 farketmi\u015fler. Ard\u0131ndan birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 aileleri terk edip, \u00a0birlikte ka\u00e7maya karar vermi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015flar\u0131ndayken yemek ve su olmadan \u00f6nce Halep\u2019e oradan Beyrut\u2019a gitmi\u015fler. Arda ve Doris, dedelerinin onlara ka\u00e7arken neler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7\u00f6pteki kavun kabuklar\u0131yla kar\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 doyurup, s\u0131v\u0131 ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l idrarla kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Sonunda Beyrut\u2019a yerle\u015fmi\u015fler. Natan \u00f6nce bir bakkalda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f, sonra hem kendine hem karde\u015fine bakabilecek hale gelmi\u015f. Her ikisi de evlenmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Beyrut\u2019ta do\u011fan ve \u015fu anda Los Angeles\u2019ta ya\u015fayan Melkonyan karde\u015fler, Los Angeles Kaliforniya \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nde (UCLA) \u00f6\u011fretim g\u00f6revlisi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Melkonyan karde\u015fler, birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. R\u00f6portaj\u0131 yaparken birbirlerinin c\u00fcmlelerini tamaml\u0131yorlar. Cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 da ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmadan yay\u0131nl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Ermeni soyk\u0131r\u0131m\u0131nda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hayatta kalmas\u0131 evlilikler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti. Bu evliliklerle ne ama\u00e7lan\u0131yordu sizce?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Hayatta kalanlar\u0131n an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 okudu\u011fumuzda bu evliliklerin i\u015flevsel ama\u00e7larla ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirildi\u011fini g\u00f6rd\u00fck. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu bunu hayatta kalman\u0131n tek yolu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyordu.\u00a0 Hatta \u00e7o\u011fu i\u00e7in kendi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, akrabalar\u0131n\u0131, hayatta kalan yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 kurtarman\u0131n tek yoluydu. Yani yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 kurtarmak i\u00e7in kendilerinden fedakarl\u0131k etmeye karar vermi\u015flerdi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Bu evliliklerle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131 kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flard\u0131?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bu geride kimin kald\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fiyordu. Kocas\u0131 \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f kad\u0131nlar, bu evlilikler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131lar. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 k\u0131z karde\u015flerini\u2026 Kimleri kurtarabildikleri, kimlerin hayatta kald\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ilgiliydi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bazen de birilerini kurtarmak i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlard\u0131, \u00f6rne\u011fin \u2018bu benim karde\u015fim\u2019 diyerek ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Peki Osmanl\u0131\u2019n\u0131n bu evliliklerden beklentisi neydi sizce?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u00dczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an\u0131larda, tam olarak bu konudan bahsedilmese de, evlili\u011fin ailenin mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na da sahip olman\u0131n bir yolu oldu\u011fu anlat\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ama sadece Ermeni soyk\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 de\u011fil, t\u00fcm \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarda kad\u0131nlar genellikle hakim grubun i\u00e7inde eritilir ve asimile edilir. Bu nedenle onlara hayatta kalmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in evlilik se\u00e7ene\u011fi sunulur. Erkek ise \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kolayca asimile edilemeyecekleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla erkeklere b\u00f6yle bir se\u00e7enek genellikle sunulmaz.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalarda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kadar\u0131yla T\u00fcrkiyeli kad\u0131nlarla evlenen Ermeni erkekler de var ama bu \u00e7ok \u00e7ok nadir bir vaka.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Bir\u00e7ok Ermeni \u00e7ocuk da T\u00fcrk, K\u00fcrt ve Arap ailelerce evlat edinildi. Bunun nedeni neydi? Dev\u015firme k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden yola \u00e7\u0131karak asimilasyonu kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak m\u0131, \u00fccretsiz ev i\u015f\u00e7ili\u011fi mi ya da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kurtarmak m\u0131?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bunun nedenleri aileden aileye de\u011fi\u015fiyordu asl\u0131nda. Baz\u0131 aileler sadece bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kurtarmak istemi\u015fti. Ama bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 \u00fccretsiz emek olarak g\u00f6ren aileler de vard\u0131; onlara yemek ve bar\u0131nma sa\u011flayarak onlar\u0131 ev i\u015flerinde ve di\u011fer i\u015flerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlard\u0131. \u00c7ocu\u011fu olmayan \u00e7iftler de s\u00f6z konusuydu. Onlar da bir aile olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 evlat edinmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131, \u00f6zellikle k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 seks k\u00f6lesi olarak kullananlar da vard\u0131. Hizmet\u00e7i olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n yan\u0131s\u0131ra k\u00f6le gibi kullan\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar da vard\u0131. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla onlara haklar\u0131 da tan\u0131nm\u0131yordu. Hem fiziksel hem psikolojik olarak s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Kar\u0131 koca aras\u0131nda da sorun olabiliyordu, baz\u0131 ailelerde erkekler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kalmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor ama kad\u0131n bunu istemiyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u0131zlar\u0131 kendisi i\u00e7in bir tehdit olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Bu evliliklerin hepsi zorla evlilikler miydi?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Yerinden edilmi\u015f, yak\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f insanlardan bahsetti\u011fimiz i\u00e7in kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bu evlilikleri ger\u00e7ekten isteyerek ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fini sanm\u0131yoruz. Eminim soyk\u0131r\u0131m ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeden \u00f6nce tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 T\u00fcrk erkeklerle evlenen nadir vakalar da mutlaka vard\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Evlat edinilen \u00e7ocuklar Ermeni k\u00f6kenlerinden haberdar m\u0131yd\u0131?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bu, ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda evlat edinildiklerine g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fiyor. \u00c7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta evlat edinilenlerin bundan haberi yoktu. Ama ya\u015f\u0131 daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olan \u00e7ocuklar bunu \u00e7ok iyi biliyorlard\u0131 ve baz\u0131lar\u0131 yeni bir evde, tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131 bir k\u00fclt\u00fcrde, isimleri ve dinleri de\u011fi\u015ftirilerek yeti\u015ftirilmeye, ba\u015fka bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn pratikleriyle ya\u015famaya direndiler. Kaybettikleri ailelerini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olan \u00e7ocuklar, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklara oras\u0131n\u0131n onlar\u0131n evi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar kolayca etkilenir ve asimile olur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla yeni aileleri onlarla ilgilendi\u011fi s\u00fcrece, bu aileyi kabulleniyorlard\u0131 ve ya\u015f\u0131 daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olan akrabalar\u0131 onlara k\u00f6klerini hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131rma mekanizmalar\u0131 kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde nas\u0131l i\u015fletildi?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u00c7o\u011fu ad\u0131m herkes i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erliydi. \u00d6rne\u011fin herkesin ismi de\u011fi\u015ftirildi, Ermenice konu\u015fmalar\u0131 engellendi, din de\u011fi\u015ftirip \u0130slam\u2019\u0131 kabullenmeleri gerekti, erkekler s\u00fcnnet edildi. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m\u0131zda kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik sadece kad\u0131nlar\u0131 kapsayan uygulamalara rastlamad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ama kad\u0131nlar din de\u011fi\u015ftirme konusunda ciddi bir diren\u00e7 g\u00f6sterdiler. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kurnazca y\u00f6ntemler kullanarak din de\u011fi\u015ftirmedi\u011fi vakalara da rastlad\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n M\u00fcsl\u00fcman toplumundaki yeri neydi peki? Ermenilikleri nedeniyle g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezler miydi? Yoksa M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131 onlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr m\u00fc k\u0131l\u0131yordu?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Cevaplamas\u0131 zor bir soru, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7o\u011funlukla hikayenin bir taraf\u0131ndan haberdar\u0131z, Ermeni toplumuna geri d\u00f6nenlerden.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Okudu\u011fumuz anlat\u0131larda, din de\u011fi\u015ftirmeden sonra kabul g\u00f6r\u00fcp g\u00f6rmediklerinden bahsetmiyorlar. Bu gibi konulara referans vermiyorlar. Sadece ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ndan, dinlerinin nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirildi\u011finden ya da nas\u0131l dinlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015f gibi davrand\u0131klar\u0131ndan bahsediyorlar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u00c7o\u011fu gizlice rit\u00fcellerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmeye devam etmi\u015f. Hayatta kalanlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu kimliklerinin kaybolmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli stratejiler geli\u015ftirmi\u015f ve asl\u0131nda M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi yapm\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Hayatta kalanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil ama aile i\u00e7inde ya\u015fanan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalardan bahsediyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Kad\u0131nlar hayatta kalmak i\u00e7in sessiz kalmalar\u0131 gerekirken, bir taraftan da Ermeni haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131n bug\u00fcne ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 da sa\u011flayanlar oldu. Bu ikisi nas\u0131l birarada ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Kad\u0131nlar sessizle\u015ftirilmi\u015fti ama yapabildikleri \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kimliklerini korudular. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir kad\u0131n her ekmek yap\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, ekme\u011fin \u00fczerine ha\u00e7\u0131 sembolize eden bir art\u0131 \u00e7izdi\u011fini anlat\u0131yordu. Yani k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck detaylarla k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerini devam ettirmenin, bunu kendilerine hat\u0131rlatman\u0131n bir yolunu buldular.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ama yine de bunun ne kadar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na aktarabildiklerinden emin de\u011filiz. \u015eu anda bu konuyu torunlar dillendiriyor. Ama bu torunlar, asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok az \u015fey biliyorlar.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Daha \u00e7ok soyk\u0131r\u0131mdan ka\u00e7an ve Suriye, L\u00fcbnan, Musul, Ba\u011fdat gibi yerlere ka\u00e7anlar kimliklerini koruyup, haf\u0131zay\u0131 aktaranlar oldu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Ermeniler konferans\u0131 i\u00e7in T\u00fcrkiye\u2019desiniz. Ama bu m\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lma meselesi yak\u0131n zamana kadar Ermeni diasporas\u0131n\u0131n da g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr de\u011fildi. Art\u0131k bir g\u00fcndem maddesi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ermeni soyk\u0131r\u0131m\u0131ndan hayatta kalanlar\u0131n torunlar\u0131, ya\u015fananlar\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de dile getirmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Diaspora da burada konu\u015fmak isteyen bir topluluk, Ermeni k\u00f6kenli bireyler oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Fethiye \u00c7etin\u2019in kitab\u0131 \u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131r a\u00e7\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131. Onun ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u201cBenim anneannem Ermeni\u2019ydi\u201d demesi bir kap\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131. Bir\u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in cesaret vericiydi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\u015eimdi daha farkl\u0131 bir topluluk var ortada. Diaspora tabii ki burada Ermeniler oldu\u011funu biliyordu ama onlar konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece, diasporan\u0131n onlar ad\u0131na konu\u015fmas\u0131 olmazd\u0131. \u015eimdiyse insanlar konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 ve diaspora da onlarla ili\u015fkilendi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Ermeni meselesi, \u00f6zellikle soyk\u0131r\u0131m, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de \u00e7ok yak\u0131n bir tarihe kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck bir tabuydu. \u015eimdiyse, her \u015feyi olmasa da, bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fabiliyoruz. Ama bu konunun hep kad\u0131n yazar ve ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131lar taraf\u0131ndan irdelendi\u011fini, dillendirildi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Sizce m\u00fccadelelere neden hep kad\u0131nlar \u00f6nc\u00fcl\u00fck ediyor?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bu ger\u00e7ekten enteresan. ABD\u2019de de kad\u0131nlar\u0131n konu\u015ftu\u011fu, taleplerin kad\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan dile getirildi\u011fi bir yap\u0131 var.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bu konudaki teorilerden biri kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kaybedecek daha az \u015feyi oldu\u011fu. Kad\u0131nlar kendilerini bu \u201cerkekler kl\u00fcb\u00fcn\u00fcn\u201d kurallar\u0131yla s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131rm\u0131yorlar. Ayr\u0131ca erkeklerden \u00e7ok daha cesaretliler.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Ama bu \u00f6nemli bir soru ve sadece Ermeni meselesinde de\u011fil. Evet, neden erkekler bunu yapm\u0131yor?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b>* Konferans\u0131 nas\u0131l buldunuz?<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Bu konferansla diyalog ba\u015flad\u0131. Konferansa her g\u00fcn 500 ki\u015finin gelip yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ve tan\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 dinlemesi \u00e7ok etkileyici.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Diasporadaki ve buradaki insanlar birlikte tart\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131, bu ili\u015fki de ilerlemi\u015f oldu. Konferans\u0131n Hrant Dink Vakf\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda d\u00fczenlenmesi de \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><a href=\"mailto:cicek@bianet.org\"><b><i>cicek@bianet.org<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><b><i>http:\/\/www.bianet.org\/bianet\/kadin\/151072-soykirimin-hafizasi-kadinlar?bia_source=rss<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7i\u00e7ek TAHAO\u011eLU Arda ve Doris Melkonyan ile bulu\u015fup, soyk\u0131r\u0131mda hayatta kalan Ermeni kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 konu\u015ftuk. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Ermeniler konferans\u0131 i\u00e7in T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye gelen Arda ve Doris Melkonyan ile bulu\u015fup, soyk\u0131r\u0131mda hayatta kalan Ermeni kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 konu\u015ftuk. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye daha \u00f6nce hem gezi ama\u00e7l\u0131 hem de \u00e7e\u015fitli konferanslar i\u00e7in gelmi\u015fler. 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