{"id":84672,"date":"2025-11-17T02:27:16","date_gmt":"2025-11-17T07:27:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=84672"},"modified":"2025-11-17T02:27:16","modified_gmt":"2025-11-17T07:27:16","slug":"ahmet-de-ben-de-otekilerden-sayiliyorduk-ayni-hamurdan-geliyorduk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=84672","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAhmet de ben de \u2018\u00f6tekiler\u2019den say\u0131l\u0131yorduk, ayn\u0131 hamurdan geliyorduk\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"
Lusyen Kopar<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
Ahmet Kaya\u2019y\u0131 16 Kas\u0131m\u2019da kaybetmemizin \u00fczerinden 25 y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti. Sokakta, televizyonda, radyoda sesini duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00fcn yok. Neden vicdan\u0131m\u0131z susmuyor? Neden kimse unutam\u0131yor gitti\u011fini? \u0130nad\u0131na her g\u00fcn dinleyip, inad\u0131na daha \u00e7ok seviyoruz onu. Sesi, bitmeyen bir hicran \u015fark\u0131s\u0131 y\u00fcreklerimizde. Yoklu\u011funun 25. y\u0131l\u0131nda e\u015fi G\u00fclten Kaya\u2019n\u0131n yaralar\u0131n\u0131 kanatmadan, an\u0131lar\u0131na dokunmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Uzun s\u00fcren bu sohbetimiz \u00fc\u00e7 haftaya yay\u0131lacak.<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n
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Aileniz Dersim Ovac\u0131kl\u0131, siz Erzincan Kemaliye\u2019de do\u011fdunuz, Elaz\u0131\u011f\u2019da okudunuz ve \u00fcniversite okumak i\u00e7in \u0130stanbul\u2019a g\u00f6\u00e7 ettiniz. Ahmet\u00a0 Kaya\u2019n\u0131n ailesinin tarihi de g\u00f6\u00e7lerle dolu. Annesi Erzurumlu, babas\u0131 Ad\u0131yamanl\u0131, kendi Malatya do\u011fumlu ve gen\u00e7li\u011finde \u0130stanbul\u2019da. \u0130ki ailenin de g\u00f6\u00e7 haritas\u0131 hayli yo\u011fun. Geleneksel ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrel farkl\u0131l\u0131klar evlili\u011finizi ve ailenizi nas\u0131l etkiledi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bizimki \u00f6zel bir \u00f6rnek. K\u00fcrt ve ta\u015fral\u0131 taraflar\u0131m\u0131zda ortakl\u0131k var. Birbirine \u00e7ok yak\u0131n iki \u015fehirde b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck. Ben Elaz\u0131\u011f’da, o Malatya’da b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla k\u00fclt\u00fcr a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yukar\u0131 ayn\u0131. Bu co\u011frafyada ya\u015fayan ve izlerini b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f ba\u015fka halklar var ve biz onlarla o topraklarda tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Mesela ben Elaz\u0131\u011f’da, e\u015fim Malatya’da Ermenilerle kap\u0131 kom\u015fulu\u011fu yapt\u0131k. Ayn\u0131 m\u00fczikler dinleyip, ayn\u0131 yemekleri yap\u0131p, ayn\u0131 esprilere g\u00fcld\u00fck.<\/p>\n

Ahmet ve benim \u00e7ok ortak yan\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131. \u0130lk olarak ayn\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcre sahiptik. \u0130kinci ve en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ortak noktam\u0131z \u2018\u00f6teki\u2019lerden say\u0131lmam\u0131zd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bizler s\u0131n\u0131fsal olarak i\u015f\u00e7i s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131yd\u0131k. Yani kimlik aidiyeti olarak da \u00f6tekiydik. Bu da bizde bir ortakl\u0131k olu\u015fturuyordu. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dakilerin bak\u0131\u015f\u0131yla \u00f6teki olma hali bizi birle\u015ftiriyordu.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda bence beraberli\u011fimizin yap\u0131 ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bunlar olu\u015fturuyordu. Birbirimizi \u00e7ok tan\u0131mak zorunda kalmad\u0131k. Geldi\u011fimiz yerlere, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feylere bak\u0131yorum. Ayn\u0131 ku\u015fak, ayn\u0131 \u015feylerden etkilenmi\u015fiz. Darbeler, mesela 60 darbesinde \u00e7ocukmu\u015fuz, 70 darbesinde ergenmi\u015fiz, 80 darbesinde gen\u00e7mi\u015fiz gibi. O s\u00fcre\u00e7lerden ikimiz de ge\u00e7mi\u015fiz. Bu paralellikler beraberlikte hakikaten bir hamur, bir altyap\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor.<\/p>\n

Sanat, k\u00fclt\u00fcr meselesi de ayn\u0131. Edebiyat seviyor olmak, \u015fiir seviyor olmak, m\u00fczi\u011fin her t\u00fcr\u00fcne yak\u0131n olmak ve m\u00fczi\u011fin her t\u00fcr\u00fcyle kulaklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n dolu olmas\u0131 ve bundan beslenmi\u015f olmam\u0131z bizi daha \u00e7ok birle\u015ftirdi.<\/p>\n

Diyelim ki o Malatya\u2019da b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk olarak Arguvan t\u00fcrk\u00fclerine kula\u011f\u0131 yatk\u0131n, benim Elaz\u0131\u011f’da da b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk olarak Harpert t\u00fcrk\u00fclerine kula\u011f\u0131m yatk\u0131n. Benim de onun gibi Arguvan t\u00fcrk\u00fclerinden, onun da benim gibi Harpert t\u00fcrk\u00fclerinden etkilendi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyorduk. Bunlar beraberliklerde kendili\u011finden bir altyap\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor.<\/p>\n

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Gen\u00e7li\u011finizde abiniz Yusuf Hayalo\u011flu evde \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yler miydi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Benim hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuz ve gen\u00e7li\u011fimiz boyunca abim m\u00fczikle hep ilgiliydi. Ben galiba ortaokuldayd\u0131m ablam ona hediye olarak elektrogitar ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. O s\u0131rada abim Haydarpa\u015fa Lisesi’nde yat\u0131l\u0131 okuyordu. O zamanlar Haydarpa\u015fa Lisesinde \u0130ngilizce e\u011fitim al\u0131yorlard\u0131. Evin i\u00e7inde hep \u0130ngilizce \u015fark\u0131lar s\u00f6yledi\u011fini hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Annem Ali Ekber \u00c7i\u00e7ek plaklar\u0131 dinlerdi. Yani o kadar o \u00e7ok k\u00fclt\u00fcrl\u00fcl\u00fckle beslenmi\u015fiz ki.<\/p>\n

Ana dil evde az da olsa konu\u015fuluyordu. Ana dilimizde bir \u015feyler dinliyorduk. Bazen annem veya babam K\u00fcrt\u00e7e t\u00fcrk\u00fcler m\u0131r\u0131ldan\u0131yordu. Hakeza Ahmet’in ailesine bak\u0131yorum, onda da \u00f6yle. Babas\u0131n\u0131n okudu\u011fu K\u00fcrk\u00e7e t\u00fcrk\u00fcler Ahmet’in hep kulaklar\u0131ndayd\u0131. \u2018Babam \u015funu \u00e7ok severdi, babam bunu \u00e7ok okurdu\u2019 diyordu.<\/p>\n

Ahmet babas\u0131n\u0131n annesine \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerdi. Bir keresinde annesi uzun bir seyahate Almanya’ya k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na gitti\u011finde, babas\u0131 pencerenin \u00f6n\u00fcnde oturup K\u00fcrt\u00e7e t\u00fcrk\u00fcler s\u00f6ylemi\u015f.<\/p>\n

Ahmet Kaya Malatya\u2019da m\u00fczikle u\u011fra\u015fan Ermeni bir ailenin yan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f de\u011fil mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet, ergen ya\u015flar\u0131nda Malatya’da Ermeni bir ailenin plak\u00e7\u0131 d\u00fckkan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Ermeni ahbaplar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fckkan\u0131. Oradaki m\u00fczikler, oraya gelenler gidenler, onlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fczik tercihleri de onu biraz etkiliyor.<\/p>\n

Galiba birini ma\u00e7a g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc s\u0131rt\u0131nda?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet, evet. Onu \u00e7ok seviyordu. J\u00fclyet ablan\u0131n o\u011flu Edvard’\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f.
\n\u0130stanbul’da da buldular birbirlerini. Ben de tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Sana anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m aile bu deyip tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Epey birbirimize gidip geldik. Sonra ba\u011flar\u0131m\u0131z koptu biraz. Ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131k.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi mesela bizim elbiselerimizi diken Mari teyzeyi hat\u0131rlamak istiyorum.<\/p>\n

Elaz\u0131\u011f\u2019da kilisenin i\u00e7erisinde oturuyorlard\u0131. Kilise bizim eve \u00e7ok yak\u0131nd\u0131. O bizim i\u00e7in adres noktas\u0131yd\u0131. \u2018Kiliseyi ge\u00e7ince sola d\u00f6n\u2019, sonra bilmem ne falan diye anlat\u0131r, kilise \u00fczerinden tarif yapard\u0131k.\u00a0 Mari teyze elbiselerimizi diken terzimizdi. Hatta bir sene ailem yaz tatilinde ablam\u0131\u00a0 Mari teyzenin yan\u0131na diki\u015f \u00f6\u011frensin diye yollam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda e\u015finiz ve siz muhalif kimlikler olarak yeti\u015fiyorsunuz. Sizin cezaevine giri\u015finiz \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta, hakeza Ahmet\u00a0 Kaya\u2019n\u0131n pankart y\u00fcz\u00fcnden cezaevine giri\u015fi ya\u015f\u0131 16. \u0130kiniz de cezaevi hayat\u0131n\u0131 biliyordunuz. Hi\u00e7 ortak zamanda i\u00e7erde bulundunuz mu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hay\u0131r, bulunmad\u0131k.<\/p>\n

Peki, Ahmet\u00a0 Kaya ile ilk tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131z nas\u0131l oldu? Selda Ba\u011fcan’\u0131n karde\u015finin st\u00fcdyosunda tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z herhalde. Tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131za Selda Han\u0131m m\u0131 vesile oldu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Selda Ba\u011fcan cezaevine geldi, tutuklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. 60 g\u00fcn kadar ko\u011fu\u015f arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapt\u0131k. Onu bir \u015feye kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yorduk. Biz cezaevinde de olsa \u00f6rg\u00fctl\u00fc k\u0131zlard\u0131k, belli siyasi yap\u0131lar\u0131 temsil ediyor, cezaevinde de \u00f6rg\u00fctl\u00fc ya\u015f\u0131yorduk. Mesel\u00e2 a\u00e7l\u0131k grevi karar\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda veya bir eylem yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda Selda’y\u0131 \u00e7ok sokmazd\u0131k b\u00f6yle i\u015flere. Arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z b\u00f6yle ba\u015flad\u0131 Selda’yla. Ben tahliye oldu\u011fumda da arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z devam etti.
\nCezaevinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m, aradan birka\u00e7 y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti, hayata tekrar ba\u015flamam gerekiyordu. Okulum, hayat\u0131m yar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Neresinden tutaca\u011f\u0131m, nas\u0131l ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m bilemiyordum. Derken T\u00fcnel\u2019de Selda\u2019n\u0131n a\u011fabeyinin st\u00fcdyosunda Selda\u2019yla beraber \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k.<\/p>\n

Ahmet birinci alb\u00fcm\u00fc \u2018A\u011flama Bebe\u011fim\u2019i o st\u00fcdyoda kaydetmi\u015f me\u011ferse. Ben Ahmet’i hi\u00e7 tan\u0131m\u0131yorum. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131m bana, \u2018sen i\u00e7erdeyken b\u00f6yle biri \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 dinle\u2019 dedi.<\/p>\n

Burada parantez a\u00e7mak istiyorum. Benim e\u015fim daha s\u00fcrg\u00fcn ya\u015famadan, ger\u00e7ekten s\u00fcrg\u00fcn \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. K\u00fcrt edebiyat\u00e7\u0131 Mehmet Uzun vard\u0131. \u0130sve\u00e7’te uzun y\u0131llar s\u00fcrg\u00fcnd\u00fc. Ahmet, Mehmet\u2019in ilk \u0130stanbul\u2019a geli\u015finde demi\u015f ki, \u2018\u0130nsan hayat\u0131nda \u00fc\u00e7 kere \u00e7ocuk olur. Birisi kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011fudur. \u0130kincisi s\u00fcrg\u00fcne gitti\u011finde \u00e7ocuk olur. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc de s\u00fcrg\u00fcnden d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00e7ocuk olur\u2019. \u2018Sen\u2019 demi\u015f Mehmet\u2019e \u2018\u015eimdi yine bir \u00e7ocuksun ve ben senin elinden tutup sana tekrar bu aradan ge\u00e7en y\u0131llardaki de\u011fi\u015fen hayat\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretip, g\u00f6sterece\u011fim.\u2019<\/p>\n

D\u00f6nelim tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131za.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ben de ilk alb\u00fcm\u00fc dinledim. Sabahattin Ali besteleri, Ahmet Arif \u015fiirleri filan. \u0130lgin\u00e7 geldi. Alb\u00fcm\u00fcn repertuar\u0131 da o y\u0131llara g\u00f6re cesurcayd\u0131. Ahmet Kaya diye birisi vard\u0131 yani. Kapakta da ilustrasyon halinde bir foto\u011fraf\u0131 vard\u0131. \u00dcniversiteli bir gen\u00e7 profili gibi g\u00f6z\u00fck\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n

St\u00fcdyoda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken Selda’ya \u2018Ahmet Kaya diye birisini dinledim, iyi bir alb\u00fcm\u2019 dedim. \u2018Aaa evet evet biliyorum, burada yapt\u0131k kayd\u0131n\u0131\u2019 dedi. Ba\u015fka bir \u015fey konu\u015fmad\u0131k.<\/p>\n

Bir g\u00fcn st\u00fcdyoday\u0131z, kap\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nd\u0131. Ben a\u00e7t\u0131m. Ahmet kar\u015f\u0131mda, ama ben bilmiyorum o oldu\u011funu. Randevusu varm\u0131\u015f Selda’yla.<\/p>\n

\u2018\u015euras\u0131 onun odas\u0131\u2019 dedim, ben de odama gittim. Sonra Selda geldi \u2018Gel seni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131m\u2019 dedi.<\/p>\n

Gittim. \u2018O \u00e7ok be\u011fendi\u011fin sanat\u00e7\u0131 var ya, Ahmet Kaya\u2019 dedi.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7imden; \u2018\u00c7ok be\u011fendi\u011fim ne ya? \u0130yi bir alb\u00fcm demi\u015ftim\u2019 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp Selda\u2019ya \u00e7ok k\u0131zd\u0131m. \u00d6ylece tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f olduk.<\/p>\n

O s\u0131rada da ikinci alb\u00fcm\u00fcn repertuar haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131. Onunla ilgili g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerle birlikte arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, dostlu\u011fumuz ve a\u015fk ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

\"G\u00fcltenG\u00fclten Kaya (solda) ve Lusyen Kopar. Foto\u011fraf: Berge Arabian<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Peki Yusuf Bey’le Ahmet Bey’in arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne zaman ba\u015flad\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015eimdi Agos okurlar\u0131n\u0131 biraz g\u00fcld\u00fcreyim en iyisi. Zaten \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r zamanlardan ge\u00e7iyoruz.<\/p>\n

Benim Yusuf abim bana \u2018Ya sen ne g\u00fczel gen\u00e7 k\u0131zs\u0131n. Ne bu politik \u015feylerle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yorsun. Hi\u00e7bir tane sevgilin bile yok. Aptal m\u0131s\u0131n? \u0130nsan\u0131n sevgilisi olur\u2019 filan der dururdu.<\/p>\n

Biz de Ahmet’le biraz yol ald\u0131ktan sonra dedim ki \u2018Tamam, \u015fimdi seni art\u0131k abimle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilirim\u2019 Asl\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn meselem abime; \u2018Ha aptal m\u0131ym\u0131\u015f\u0131m bak sevgilim var\u2019 diyebilmekti.<\/p>\n

Ailemden ilk abimle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m Ahmet’i. Bunlar biraraya gelip, bir sohbete dald\u0131lar. Sanki k\u0131rk y\u0131ld\u0131r tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f gibiydiler.<\/p>\n

Yusuf Hayalo\u011flu \u015fiirleri nas\u0131l Ahmet Kaya \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131yla birle\u015fti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ahmet\u2019e ailemi anlat\u0131rken \u2018\u015fiiri \u00e7ok severiz, abim \u00e7ok iyi \u015fiirler yazar, yar\u0131\u015fmalarda dereceleri vard\u0131r\u2019 diye anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Abimin \u015fiirlerine ula\u015fmak zordu. Onun \u015fiirlerine ula\u015fmam\u0131z ve beslenmeye ba\u015flamam\u0131z hemen olmad\u0131. \u00d6nce onu ikna etti.\u00a0 Abimin son 10 y\u0131lda yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ben de \u00e7ok bilmiyordum. Onun hep k\u00fclliyatlar\u0131 vard\u0131. Defterlerine el yaz\u0131s\u0131yla yazard\u0131 \u015fiirlerini.<\/p>\n

Bir yerde oturuyorduk. Abim \u2018Hani benim gen\u00e7li\u011fim\u2019 \u015fiirini g\u00f6sterdi Ahmet\u2019e. Ahmet \u00e7ok sars\u0131ld\u0131, \u00e7ok etkilendi. \u2018Hemen eve gidiyoruz\u2019 dedi. H\u0131zl\u0131ca eve d\u00f6nd\u00fck ve hemen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ondan sonra art\u0131k \u015fey demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u2018Hadi hoca d\u00f6k \u015fu k\u00fclliyat\u0131n\u0131 bakal\u0131m, a\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 bakal\u0131m ne var\u2019. Giderek ortak \u00fcretim s\u00fcreci ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda muazzam bir arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet, evet. \u0130\u015fte o yine ortak k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nem kazan\u0131yor burda.<\/p>\n

\"Foto\u011fraf:Foto\u011fraf: Berge Arabian<\/span><\/em><\/div>\n

Evlenece\u011finiz ailenize s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde tepkileri nas\u0131l oldu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Benim evlenece\u011fime ailemden hi\u00e7 kimse inanm\u0131yordu. Yani \u2018Bu anar\u015fik evlenmez\u2019 diyorlard\u0131. Anne olaca\u011f\u0131m zaman da inanmad\u0131lar, evlendi\u011fim zaman da inanmad\u0131lar…<\/p>\n

Bizim evlenmemiz de biraz zaman ald\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck art\u0131k, konserlere filan gidip geliyoruz. B\u00f6yle bir \u015feye vaktimiz de yok. Ama tabii \u015fimdi fark\u0131nday\u0131z aileleri \u00fczmemek ad\u0131na bile olsa evlenmemiz gerekiyor.<\/p>\n

\u2018Eee tamam evlenelim ama vaktimiz yok\u2019 dedik. Prosed\u00fcr var. Nikah g\u00fcn\u00fc al\u0131nacak, o yap\u0131lacak, bu yap\u0131lacak… Ailem \u2018Biz hallederiz, u\u011fra\u015fman\u0131za gerek yok\u2019 dedi. \u2018Peki halledin o zaman\u2019 dedik. Bir g\u00fcn bize telefon a\u00e7\u0131p, \u2018\u015fu g\u00fcn nikah\u0131n\u0131z var\u2019 dediler. \u2018Nerede?\u2019 dedik, \u2018\u0130zmit’te ablan\u0131n evinde, nikah memuru eve gelecek, bir yere gitmek zorunda bile kalmayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Merak etmeyin\u2019 dediler. Tamam o zaman, olur dedik. \u0130kimiz blucin, g\u00f6mlek \u0130zmit\u2019e gittik.
\nAnnem dedi ki \u2018K\u0131z\u0131m ya nikah\u0131n\u0131z k\u0131y\u0131l\u0131yor, insan en az\u0131ndan d\u00fczg\u00fcn giyinir\u2019 dedi. Bakt\u0131m \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyor kad\u0131n, \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131ya gidip kendime beyaz pantolon, ceket ald\u0131m. Ahmet’e de pantolon alamad\u0131m ama bir beyaz g\u00f6mlek ald\u0131m. En az\u0131ndan imza atarken masan\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden temiz ve d\u00fczg\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnelim diye. Masada Ahmet’in aya\u011f\u0131nda yine kendi blucini vard\u0131. Annemi mutlu ettik i\u015fte. Neyse ki o kadar\u0131na da raz\u0131yd\u0131 kad\u0131n. Yeter ki G\u00fclten evlensin yani…<\/p>\n

Eskiden b\u00fct\u00fcn evlerin duvar\u0131nda \u00e7er\u00e7eveli gelin damat resimleri olurdu. K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z Melis bize \u2018Sizin neden gelin, damat foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131z yok? demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Ahmet de \u2018biz de gidelim gelinlik kiralayal\u0131m foto\u011fraf \u00e7ektirelim. \u00c7ocu\u011fu mutlu edelim, \u00fcz\u00fclmesin’ dedi, Ben de \u2018Yok art\u0131k o kadar da sa\u00e7malayamay\u0131z yani\u2019 demi\u015ftim.<\/p>\n

https:\/\/www.agos.com.tr\/tr\/yazi\/36323\/ahmet-de-ben-de-otekilerden-sayiliyorduk-ayni-hamurdan-geliyorduk<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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