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Fethiye \u00c7etin<\/strong><\/p>\n Anlatmaya devam etti. \u201cBabam s\u0131k s\u0131k elimden tutar beni \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc, d\u00fckkan\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnden her ge\u00e7ti\u011fimizde Poto Saat\u00e7i elindeki i\u015fi b\u0131rak\u0131r, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 f\u0131rlar, babam\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde iki b\u00fckl\u00fcm olur elini \u00f6perdi. Ben \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc saat\u00e7i ihtiyard\u0131, babam onun \u00e7ocu\u011fu ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131, el \u00f6pmesi gereken biri varsa o da babam olmal\u0131yd\u0131. Bir g\u00fcn dayanamay\u0131p sordum, \u015f\u00f6yle anlatt\u0131 babam: \u2018Ermenileri toplay\u0131p g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrlerken deden o zaman k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocuk olan bu Poto Saat\u00e7iyi kafleden alm\u0131\u015f, al\u0131rken de ben bu \u00e7ocu\u011fu tan\u0131r\u0131m, Ermeni de\u011fil, S\u00fcryanidir o demi\u015f ve b\u00f6ylece hayatta kalabilmi\u015f Poto, hen\u00fcz S\u00fcryanilere dokunulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan. Bu nedenle dedene ve sonra da bana \u00e7ok sayg\u0131 duyar, her g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde gelip elimizi \u00f6per\u2019 dedi.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Telefonda kendini tan\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ayn\u0131 \u015fehirden ve ayn\u0131 meslekten olmam\u0131za ra\u011fmen siyasi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerimiz aras\u0131ndaki u\u00e7urum nedeniyle farkl\u0131 kutuplarda konumlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k ve bu nedenle uzun zamand\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmemi\u015ftik. Ya\u015f\u00e7a benden b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fc, \u2018buyur Metin Abi\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n K\u0131sa bir h\u00e2l hat\u0131r fasl\u0131ndan sonra hemen konuya girdi ve \u201ckitab\u0131n\u0131 okudum\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n Dokuz ya\u015f\u0131na kadar ailesiyle ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde \u00e7ocuk g\u00f6zleriyle say\u0131s\u0131z vah\u015fete tan\u0131k olmu\u015f, sonras\u0131nda annesinden zorla kopar\u0131l\u0131p M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, ad\u0131 Heranu\u015f iken Seher olmu\u015f, farkl\u0131 kimlikle y\u0131llarca suskun ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f anneannemin hik\u00e2yesini anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u2018Anneannem\u2019 isimli kitab\u0131mdan s\u00f6z ediyordu.<\/p>\n Sonra \u2018\u00e7ok etkilendim\u2019 dedi bir s\u00fcre sustuktan sonra ama\u2026\u201d diye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bildik tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n can\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek kendimi duyacaklar\u0131ma haz\u0131rlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n \u00d6nce, \u2018ama Ermeniler\u2019 diye ba\u015fldi\u011finde, bu yetinin de k\u00f6reldi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yarg\u0131 yetisi ancak di\u011ferleriyle birlikte di\u011ferleriyle tart\u0131\u015farak, konu\u015farak beslenen, geli\u015fen bir \u015fey.<\/span><\/p>\n Tahakk\u00fcmc\u00fc rejimler kamusal alan\u0131 ele ge\u00e7irip i\u011fdi\u015f ediyorlar, s\u00fcrekli beka korkusu ile insanlar\u0131n karar verme yetisi ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. Soyk\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7ok kat\u0131 bi\u00e7imde ink\u00e2r\u0131 kamusal alanda konu\u015fulacaklar\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 da belirliyor. Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma alanlar\u0131m\u0131z, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fma alanlar\u0131m\u0131z yok ediliyor.<\/p>\n Konu\u015fmak en az\u0131ndan iki taraf\u0131 gerektirir. Konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 gelebilece\u011fimiz, birlikte d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilece\u011fimiz, birbirimizi dinleyebilece\u011fimiz alanlar gerekir. O halde ne yapabiliriz? Elimizden al\u0131nan kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma alanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yeniden ve nas\u0131l kurabilece\u011fimizi tart\u0131\u015fmakla ba\u015flayabiliriz i\u015fe belki.<\/p>\n Yarg\u0131 yetimizi, karar verme yetimizi yeniden kazanabilece\u011fimiz kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131, tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 te\u015fvik etmeliyiz. Gelece\u011fimizi kurmak i\u00e7in buna ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var.<\/p>\n Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlamak, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi tart\u0131\u015fmak ge\u00e7mi\u015fe dair bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Gelece\u011fimizi kurmakla ilgilidir.<\/p>\n Hat\u0131rlamazsak ve lay\u0131k\u0131yla tart\u0131\u015fmazsak hep yeniden oluyor, bunu biliyoruz.<\/p>\n
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