{"id":58476,"date":"2020-08-25T01:54:04","date_gmt":"2020-08-25T06:54:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=58476"},"modified":"2020-08-25T01:54:04","modified_gmt":"2020-08-25T06:54:04","slug":"florun-kacirilma-travmasiyla-gecen-hayati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=58476","title":{"rendered":"Flor\u2019un ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma travmas\u0131yla ge\u00e7en hayat\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Besse Kabak<\/a><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
Hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, ismi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan Ermeni k\u0131zlar\u0131n listesine dahil oldu. 45 y\u0131l \u00f6nce kendisini ka\u00e7\u0131rmak, hayat\u0131na, bedenine uzanmak isteyen ellerden kurtulmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f olsa da y\u0131llar boyu kan ter i\u00e7inde uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00e2buslar\u0131nda tekrar tekrar ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131larak, at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u0131lanlarla dolu k\u00f6r kuyulardan \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131p durdu. Bu konu hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fulmas\u0131na dahi tahamm\u00fcl edemedi. Ancak kendisine g\u00f6ndermi\u015f oldu\u011fum Muhsin K\u0131z\u0131lkaya’n\u0131n yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 okuduktan sonra, o ‘s\u0131radan’ ac\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olan t\u00fcm ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n sesi olmay\u0131 kabul etti. Ricas\u0131 \u00fczerine r\u00f6portajda kendisinden \u201cFlor\u201d olarak bahsederken, olaylar\u0131n ge\u00e7ti\u011fi k\u00f6y ve \u015fah\u0131s isimlerini de t\u00fcm\u00fcyle de\u011fi\u015ftirdim. Olay T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin g\u00fcneydo\u011fusunda, Ermeniler\u2019in, Araplar\u2019\u0131n, K\u00fcrtler\u2019in bir zamanlar birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir co\u011frafyada ge\u00e7mekte diyeyim, gerisini anlay\u0131n. Bu, ayn\u0131 zamanda Ermeniler\u2019in do\u011fup b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fckleri topraklar\u0131, \u00e7ok yak\u0131n tarihte,1975\u2019lerde bile ne \u015fartlar alt\u0131nda terketmek zorunda kald\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n hikayesi. \u0130\u015fte Flor\u2019un hikayesi.<\/span><\/em><\/div>\n
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\u00d6ncelikle k\u0131rk be\u015f y\u0131ld\u0131r konu\u015fmaya dahi tahamm\u00fcl edemedi\u011fin ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma hikayeni, bug\u00fcn ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lan t\u00fcm k\u0131zlar ve kad\u0131nlar ad\u0131na dile getiriyor olman nedeniyle te\u015fekk\u00fcrlerimi sunmak isterim.\u00a0 Kendi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma olay\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ncesinde, bildi\u011fin, duydu\u011fun ba\u015fka ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma hikayeleri var m\u0131yd\u0131?<\/strong>
\nBizim oradaki herkes gibi ben de G\u00fclo’nun ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma hikayesini okunan \u015fark\u0131lardan \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftim. Ama ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma olaylar\u0131ndaki benim kahraman\u0131m Ankin olmu\u015ftu. Kendisini ka\u00e7\u0131rmaya kalk\u0131\u015fan adamlar\u0131n elinden iki kez kurtulmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f biri olarak sadece benim de\u011fil t\u00fcm herkesin kahraman\u0131 olmu\u015ftu zaten. Ama g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde beni de ka\u00e7\u0131rmaya kalk\u0131\u015facaklar\u0131, benim de kahraman olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclece\u011fim hi\u00e7 akl\u0131ma gelmemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

Senin ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lma giri\u015fimi hadisen nas\u0131l oldu?<\/strong>
\nBeni ka\u00e7\u0131rmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ki\u015fi, bir g\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinden a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6yde ya\u015fayan a\u011fam\u0131z\u0131n o\u011fullar\u0131 olan iki kuzeniyle beraber bizim k\u00f6ye gelmi\u015fti. Adam ba\u015fka k\u00f6yde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in biz onu ilk kez orada g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olduk. Hatta k\u0131z karde\u015fim onlar\u0131n etrafta gezinip, bize tuhaf tuhaf bak\u0131nd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce onlar\u0131 terslemi\u015fti.
\nErtesi g\u00fcn\u00fc de babam de\u011firmene inecekti. Bizimkilerin b\u00fcy\u00fck ya\u015fta erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, ben erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fu gibiydim. Babama da \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Benim g\u00f6z\u00fcmde o bir kahramand\u0131. \u0130lk evlatlar\u0131 olmam nedeniyle babam\u0131n bana duydu\u011fu sevgi de ayr\u0131 boyuttayd\u0131. Ben de babam\u0131n o sevgisine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k olarak nereye gitse beraberinde gidip elimden geldi\u011fince her i\u015finde ona yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum.
\nO g\u00fcn babam, anneme “Ben de\u011firmene gidece\u011fim. Sonra k\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6nder de unu getirsin” diyerek yola koyuldu. Belli bir saatten sonra da annem beni a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6ydeki de\u011firmene, babam\u0131n yan\u0131na g\u00f6nderdi. K\u00f6ye indi\u011fimde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alay\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. De\u011firmene girmemle beraber zaten d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri de gelip t\u00fcrk\u00fc okumas\u0131 i\u00e7in babam\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne davet ettiler. Babam \u00e7ok g\u00fczel t\u00fcrk\u00fc okudu\u011fundan, civar k\u00f6ydeki halk dahi, babam\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden saymazd\u0131.
\nTabii ben de babamla beraber d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gittim. O \u015fark\u0131 okurken, ben de duvar\u0131n dibinde oturup onu dinledim. Beraber yemek yedikten sonra da babam “Gel seni eve g\u00f6ndereyim” dedi. Akrabam\u0131z\u0131n o\u011flu Miran’\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131p “Gel Flor’a yard\u0131m et. Beraber k\u00f6ye \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n\u0131z” dedi.
\nDe\u011firmene gittik. Babam s\u0131rt\u0131ma un \u00e7uval\u0131n\u0131 verdi. Yola koyuldum. Miran de benim pe\u015fimde. Ama ikimiz de \u00e7ocu\u011fuz daha. Ben on \u00fc\u00e7, o da on bir, on iki ya\u015flar\u0131nda.
\nTam “Kh\u0131rbeye Manug” denilen, anne taraf\u0131ndan atalar\u0131m\u0131n harabeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fen tarlalar\u0131n\u0131n oraya geldik ki, bir g\u00fcn \u00f6nce g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz o \u00fc\u00e7 gen\u00e7 adam yan\u0131m\u0131zda beliriverdi. “\u0130yi yolculuklar. Biz de k\u00f6ye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yoruz. Yard\u0131m edelim” dediler.
\nAnnem bizim hamurumuzu biraz sert yo\u011furmu\u015ftu. O y\u00fczden de erkek gibi yeti\u015fmi\u015ftim. S\u0131radan bir k\u0131z de\u011fildim yani. Bu durum \u00e7evrede de dikkat \u00e7ekiyordu.
\n“Yok istemem. Ben ta\u015f\u0131r\u0131m” dedim. “Nazmi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gelmemi\u015f. \u00c7a\u011f\u0131rmaya gidiyoruz. \u00c7uval\u0131n\u0131 ver, yard\u0131m edelim” diyerek \u0131srar ettiler.
\nBenim tekrar “Yok istemem” dememle birlikte, bunlar s\u0131rt\u0131mdaki un \u00e7uval\u0131n\u0131 yere f\u0131rlat\u0131p, elimden tuttuklar\u0131 gibi de “Seni ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yoruz” dediler.
\nBa\u011f\u0131rd\u0131m yalvard\u0131m, a\u011flad\u0131m ama nafile. B\u0131rakmad\u0131lar. Can havliyle Miran’a “Git babama haber ver” dedim. \u00c7ocuk ko\u015ftu babama haber vermeye gitti.
\nBen bir yandan yalvar\u0131yor, bir yandan da kar\u015f\u0131 koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum ama adamlar beni o tarlan\u0131n bir ucundan \u00f6b\u00fcr ucuna do\u011fru s\u00fcr\u00fcklemeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Bulundu\u011fumuz yer k\u00f6yden g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6ydeki d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alay\u0131 t\u00fcm bu olanlar\u0131 izliyormu\u015f.
\nMamam\u0131n g\u0131nkahayr\u0131 (Vaftiz babas\u0131) olan akrabam\u0131z Melkon da d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcndeydi. O da olanlar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f. Ama de\u011firmen a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, Miran gidene kadar babam\u0131n olanlardan haberi olmam\u0131\u015f.
\nBeni ka\u00e7\u0131ranlara yalvarmalar\u0131m, a\u011flay\u0131p ba\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131m i\u015fe yaram\u0131yordu.\u00a0 En sonunda mamam\u0131n atalar\u0131 bana yard\u0131m etti. K\u00f6yde ta\u015flar\u0131 toplay\u0131p tarlan\u0131n kenar\u0131na koyarlard\u0131. E\u015farb\u0131m o ta\u015flar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. O y\u00fczden atalar\u0131m bana yard\u0131m ettiler diyorum ya. Bakt\u0131m ki beni b\u0131rakm\u0131yorlar. \u00dc\u00e7 tane adam. Ben \u00f6n \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m ama onlar yirmi, yirmi be\u015f ya\u015flar\u0131nda. “Tamam, beni b\u0131rak\u0131n. E\u015farb\u0131m\u0131 alay\u0131m, sizinle gelece\u011fim” dedim. E\u011fildim e\u015farb\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131yor gibi yapt\u0131m, ama e\u015farb\u0131m\u0131n yerine oradaki ta\u015f\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi beni ka\u00e7\u0131rmak isteyen \u00e7ocu\u011fun kafas\u0131na vurdum. \u00c7ocuk orada kanlar i\u00e7inde yere d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Yan\u0131ndaki iki kuzeni \u00e7ocu\u011fu kafas\u0131ndan akan kanlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc zannederek beni b\u0131rak\u0131p ona y\u00f6neldiler. Ben de o f\u0131rsattan yararlan\u0131p, e\u015farb\u0131m\u0131 kapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m gibi yoku\u015f yukar\u0131 ko\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.
\nO an\u0131 hi\u00e7 unutamam.<\/p>\n

\"Mu\u015f<\/div>\n
Mu\u015f b\u00f6lgesinden tarihsel k\u0131yafetlerile Ermeni kad\u0131nlar\u0131 (Ar\u015fiv)<\/span><\/div>\n

\u201cK\u0131z bizim art\u0131k, bize vereceksiniz\u201d<\/strong>
\nKo\u015farak nefes nefese bizim k\u00f6y\u00fcn a\u015fa\u011f\u0131s\u0131na kadar geldim. K\u00f6y\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce durumu anlatt\u0131m. Onlar da hemen etraf\u0131m\u0131 sard\u0131lar. Herkes birbirine seslenip olay\u0131 k\u00f6ydekilere duyurdular. Eve \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k. \u00c7ok ge\u00e7meden babam da eve geldi. Nefes dahi almadan elimden tutarak “Y\u00fcr\u00fc karakola gidiyoruz” dedi. Beraber K…’daki karakola gidiyoruz ama ben hala olanlar\u0131n etkisindeyim.
\nBiz Ver\u0131nta\u011f\u2019a geldi\u011fimizde orada Celal’i g\u00f6rd\u00fck. Adam olup biteni \u00f6\u011frenince babam\u0131 karakola gitmekten vazge\u00e7irmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ama babam\u0131 ikna edemedi. Biz yolumuza devam ettik. Me\u011ferse adam ikili oynuyormu\u015f. Bizi ikna edemeyince, gidip k\u00f6ydekilere “Karakola gidiyorlar. Yeti\u015fin” diye haber vermi\u015f.
\nD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alay\u0131ndakiler gelip Nor\u015fen\u2019de yolumuz kestiler. Hepsi silahl\u0131. Elimden tutup “K\u0131z bizim art\u0131k. O bizim namusumuz. Bize vereceksiniz” dediler.
\nBizde ne bir silah ne de savunmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacak ba\u015fka bir \u015fey. Onlarda ise bir s\u00fcr\u00fc silah. O an\u0131 hi\u00e7 unutamam. Kalbim yerinden f\u0131rlayacak gibi at\u0131yordu. Ta\u015f kesilmi\u015f gibi, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey diyemeden \u00f6ylece duruyordum.
\nD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne kat\u0131lan akrabam\u0131z Melkon da olup biteni duyunca k\u00f6yl\u00fclerle birlikte
\nNor\u015fen\u2019e gelmi\u015f. “K\u0131z bizim art\u0131k. O bizim namusumuz. Bize vereceksiniz” s\u00f6zleri \u00fczerine silah\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekip bizden yana ge\u00e7ti. Asla unutamam onun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 o iyili\u011fi. Helal olsun. Silah\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterip “K\u0131z\u0131 alamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Ermeni’nin elinden \u00f6lmek isteyen varsa buyursun gelsin” dedi.
\n\u00dc\u00e7 ki\u015fi olduk. Bir tane de silah\u0131m\u0131z var. (Ac\u0131yla g\u00fcl\u00fcyor)\u00a0 Belki yirmi otuz tane silaha kar\u015f\u0131n, bizim sadece tek bir tane silah\u0131m\u0131z var… Ama Ermeniyiz ya, Ermeni’nin elinden \u00f6lmek de onlar i\u00e7in k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey.<\/p>\n

Peki\u00a0 sonra ne oldu?<\/strong>
\nSilahlar \u00e7ekilmi\u015f vaziyette \u00f6ylece duruyoruz. Tam o anda Nor\u015fen k\u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 da araya girdiler.
\nMe\u011ferse bulundu\u011fumuz Nor\u015fen k\u00f6y halk\u0131 ile bizim a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6yde ya\u015fayanlar iki farkl\u0131 a\u015firettenlermi\u015f. Aralar\u0131nda da husumet varm\u0131\u015f. Olanlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce onlar da silahlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekerek “Buradan, bizim kap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnden kimse k\u0131z alamaz” diyerek bizden yana ge\u00e7tiler. Ortal\u0131k iyice kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131.
\nNor\u015fen\u2019dekiler “Bunlar art\u0131k bizim kap\u0131m\u0131za geldiler. Kimse alamaz” deyince d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alay\u0131 da “Karakola gidecek olurlarsa b\u0131rakmay\u0131z. K\u0131z bizim” dediler.\u00a0 Babam da “Asla k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 vermem'” dedi. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 silahlar \u00e7ekilmi\u015f ben de onlar\u0131n ortas\u0131nda \u00f6ylece durmu\u015f tir tir titriyorum. Benim al\u0131p g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclme, babam\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclme ihtimali, onca insan\u0131n \u00f6lme ihtimali… Aptalla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, vaziyette, dilim tutulmu\u015f, korkudan tir t\u0131r titreyip a\u011fl\u0131yorum.
\nEn sonunda uzla\u015fma gerekti\u011fi s\u00f6ylendi.
\nNor\u015fen k\u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6nde gelenleri babama “Sen eve d\u00f6neceksin” dediler. \u00d6b\u00fcr tarafa da “Burada olay olmayacak. Siz de k\u0131z\u0131 almadan k\u00f6y\u00fcn\u00fcze d\u00f6neceksiniz” dediler.
\nVar\u0131lan uzla\u015fma sonucunda kimsenin kan\u0131 d\u00f6k\u00fclmedi. Onlar beni alamad\u0131, biz de karakola gidemedik. Ama herkes sa\u011f salim evine d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f oldu.
\nBu meyanda biz \u015fik\u00e2yete bulunmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Ama beni Nor\u015fen k\u00f6yden biri, olay sonras\u0131nda gidip bizim ad\u0131m\u0131za \u015fik\u00e2yete bulunmu\u015f. \u0130fade vermeleri i\u00e7in karakola kar\u015f\u0131 taraf \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. Ama onlar gitmemi\u015f. Onlar\u0131n yerine ba\u015fkas\u0131 gitmi\u015f. Karakolda o ki\u015fiye g\u00f6zda\u011f\u0131 vermi\u015fler. Jandarma komutan\u0131 sonra babam\u0131 da \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Babama “Bak o\u011flum. E\u011fer bundan sonra seni rahats\u0131z edecek olurlarsa \u015fu tepeye \u00e7\u0131k ba\u011f\u0131r.\u00a0 Ben duyar\u0131m” demi\u015f. O kadar. Sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011f\u0131n daniskas\u0131 yani.<\/p>\n

Seni ka\u00e7\u0131rmak isteyen adama ne oldu?\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong>
\nVurdu\u011fum ta\u015f y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kafas\u0131 yar\u0131l\u0131nca oldu\u011fu yerde bay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. Allahtan \u00f6lmemi\u015f. Yoksa i\u015fin boyutu i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz bir hal al\u0131rd\u0131.
\nA\u011fan\u0131n kuzeni ile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 beni ka\u00e7\u0131rma planlar\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamasalar da benden vazge\u00e7mediler. Herkes kendi k\u00f6y\u00fcne d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra bu kez de “K\u0131z\u0131 vereceksiniz” diyerek bask\u0131 yapmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Bize a\u011fal\u0131k olay\u0131 biraz a\u00e7ar m\u0131s\u0131n?\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>
\nBabam\u0131n ailesi 1915\u2019e kadar ba\u015fka k\u00f6yde ya\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f. A\u011fa dedi\u011fimiz ki\u015finin b\u00fcy\u00fckleri o k\u00f6ydeki Ermenileri himayelerine alm\u0131\u015f bir Arap a\u015fireti. Yani \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmelerine engel olmu\u015flar. Onlar\u0131 al\u0131p benim de do\u011fdu\u011fum k\u00f6ye getirmi\u015fler. Ermenilerin beraberlerinde getirmi\u015f olduklar\u0131 t\u00fcm k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckba\u015f s\u00fcr\u00fclere de el koyarak her bir aileyi, tekrar Ermenilerden kalan topraklara yerle\u015fmi\u015fler. Her bir Ermeni aile \u2018a\u011fa\u2019 denilen o ailenin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 aras\u0131nda pay edilmi\u015f. Kurtar\u0131lan Ermeniler art\u0131k onlar\u0131n \u2018\u011fulam\u2019\u0131 olmu\u015f. \u011eulaml\u0131k nas\u0131l bir \u015fey dersen. A\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n yani senin pay\u0131na d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ki\u015finin insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 do\u011frultusunda, seni \u2018a\u011fa\u2019n\u0131n k\u00f6lesi, hizmetkar\u0131 veya karde\u015ften \u00f6te can dostu yapacak olan bir \u015fey. Yani hayatta kalmam\u0131z\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onlar\u0131n \u2018Ermenileri\u2019, i\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fc ve gelir kayna\u011f\u0131 olmu\u015ftuk.
\nA\u011fam\u0131za \u2018daman\u2019 denilen, tarladan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z mahsulden \u00fc\u00e7te bir pay\u0131 verir, bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda da ekip bi\u00e7me i\u015flerinde onlara yard\u0131m ederdik. Bunun kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da s\u00f6z\u00fcmona bir yerde t\u0131pk\u0131 a\u015firet sisteminde oldu\u011fu gibi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n seni \u00f6ld\u00fcrmesinden, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n, gelininin ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131ndan, k\u00f6y d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda gitti\u011fin yerde sana\u00a0 veya aile bireylerine k\u00f6t\u00fc muamele yap\u0131lmas\u0131ndan korunmu\u015f olunuyordu.
\nBabam zaman\u0131nda \u2018a\u011fa\u2019yla bir anla\u015fma yapm\u0131\u015f. Ona “Benden iki \u015fey istemeyeceksin. Bir k\u0131z istemeyeceksin, bir de \u2018Dinini de\u011fi\u015ftir\u2019\u00a0 demeyeceksin. Bunlar\u0131 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m s\u00fcrece karde\u015fimsin” demi\u015f. Aralar\u0131nda b\u00f6yle bir konu\u015fma olmu\u015f. Bunlar\u0131n husumette olduklar\u0131 ki\u015filer oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de onlar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 merkezdeki hastaneye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011fu yerden ge\u00e7ilmesi gerekti\u011fi zaman onlar yerine gidip onlar\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gereken t\u00fcm i\u015flerini hallederdi. Aralar\u0131nda olu\u015fan g\u00fcven ba\u011f\u0131 sayesinde de, a\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda tedbirli olmak ad\u0131na babama saklamas\u0131 i\u00e7in kendi kala\u015fnikofunu vermi\u015f. Allah\u2019\u0131n i\u015fine bak. O kala\u015fnikof beni ikinci kez ka\u00e7\u0131rmak i\u00e7in k\u00f6ye bask\u0131n yap\u0131lmas\u0131ndan kurtarm\u0131\u015f oldu.<\/p>\n

O nas\u0131l oldu?<\/strong>
\nEvimizi bas\u0131p beni ka\u00e7\u0131racaklar\u0131 haberi gelince, babam \u201c\u015earj\u00f6rler bitene kadar kimse i\u00e7eri giremez. Bunu bilerek gelsinler\u201d diye haber g\u00f6nderdi. Ger\u00e7ekten de sandalyeyi al\u0131p, kala\u015fnikofa \u015farj\u00f6r\u00fc tak\u0131p kap\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131nda beklemi\u015fti.
\nA\u011fam\u0131z “Gitmeyin. Benim silah\u0131m da \u015farj\u00f6rlerim de Astur\u2019da. Astur delidir. Dedi\u011fini yapar. Giderseniz sizi \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr. Sizi o evden sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131kartmaz” deyince bunlar evimizi basmaktan vazge\u00e7mi\u015fler. Ama benden vazge\u00e7mediler.<\/p>\n

(Devam\u0131 gelecek hafta)<\/em><\/p>\n

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Besse Kabak\u00a0 Hen\u00fcz 13 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, ismi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan Ermeni k\u0131zlar\u0131n listesine dahil oldu. 45 y\u0131l \u00f6nce kendisini ka\u00e7\u0131rmak, hayat\u0131na, bedenine uzanmak isteyen ellerden kurtulmay\u0131 ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f olsa da y\u0131llar boyu kan ter i\u00e7inde uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00e2buslar\u0131nda tekrar tekrar ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131larak, at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u0131lanlarla dolu k\u00f6r kuyulardan \u00e7\u0131kmak i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131p durdu. Bu konu hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fulmas\u0131na dahi tahamm\u00fcl edemedi. 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