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Melih Levi<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Aram Saroyan, \u2018Son Rit\u00fceller\u2019 adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131 14 Nisan 1981 g\u00fcn\u00fc babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendikten hemen sonra yazmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Yakla\u015f\u0131k bir ayl\u0131k d\u00f6nemi kapsayan bu kitapta hem babas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 hem de bu vesileyle kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 buluyor. T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye \u00e7evrilmeyi bekleyen kitap, baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini, \u00f6l\u00fcm ve yas kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131c\u0131 bir cesaret ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle inceleyen say\u0131l\u0131 eserlerden biri.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

20. y\u00fczy\u0131l d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli yazarlar\u0131ndan William Saroyan, birinci e\u015fi Carol Marcus ile iki \u00e7ocuk d\u00fcnyaya getirdi: Aram ve Lucy. Aram, 1943\u2019te New York\u2019ta do\u011fdu ve babas\u0131n\u0131n yolundan gitmeyi tercih etti, yazar oldu. Saroyan\u2019lar kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n diye yaz\u0131mda o\u011fluna ismiyle, \u2018Aram\u2019 diye hitap edece\u011fim.<\/p>\n

Aram\u2019\u0131n eserleriyle ilkin \u2018Minimal \u015eiirler\u2019 kitab\u0131 sayesinde tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. \u015eiirler, kitab\u0131n ad\u0131ndan belli olaca\u011f\u0131 gibi k\u0131sac\u0131k ve bir hayli yo\u011fundu. En az kelimeyle en derin duygular\u0131 i\u015fliyorlard\u0131. \u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131m. San\u0131r\u0131m istemeden, Aram\u2019\u0131n \u015fiir kitab\u0131n\u0131 elime farkl\u0131 beklentilerle alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Babas\u0131 William Saroyan\u2019un lirik, i\u00e7ten ve duygusal anlat\u0131m\u0131na benzer bir ses aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011fumu fark ettim. Bilin\u00e7sizce, o\u011flun baban\u0131n do\u011fal bir uzant\u0131s\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 varsaym\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. William Saroyan\u2019\u0131n yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi, ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, onun d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnden etkilenmi\u015f bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun, babas\u0131na benzemesi gerekir diye g\u00fcl\u00fcn\u00e7 bir beklenti i\u00e7indeydim.<\/p>\n

Babaya tepki mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sonra akl\u0131ma bir fikir geldi: Aram, minimalist tarz\u0131n\u0131, babas\u0131n\u0131n okuyucuyla kurdu\u011fu ahbapl\u0131\u011fa bir tepki olarak geli\u015ftirmi\u015f olabilir miydi? Psikanalizden edebiyat teorisine bir\u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ekol\u00fc, baba fig\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn otoritesinden ka\u00e7ma \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi arzular\u0131n\u0131 hayata ge\u00e7irmesinde hayati bir \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgular. Acaba Aram da minimalist tarz\u0131n\u0131 babas\u0131n\u0131n etkisinden uzakla\u015fmak ve bir yazar olarak kendi kimli\u011fini ortaya koyabilmek i\u00e7in m\u0131 benimsemi\u015fti?<\/p>\n

1965\u2019te, Aram daha 22 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, bir gece, d\u00fcnya edebiyat\u0131n\u0131n en k\u0131sa \u015fiirlerinden birini kaleme ald\u0131: \u2018Lighght.\u2019 \u015eiir, \u0130ngilizcede \u0131\u015f\u0131k anlam\u0131na gelen \u2018light\u2019 kelimesinin \u00e7arp\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir yaz\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan ibaretti. Sonradan yay\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir yaz\u0131da, bu kelimenin 1960\u2019lardaki zaman kavram\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Ge\u00e7ici s\u00fcreli\u011fine duran, insanlar\u0131n s\u00fcrekli nefesini tuttu\u011fu anlar\u0131 ifade ediyor. \u201cSanki \u0131\u015f\u0131k tam koyula\u015famadan yumu\u015fak bir sesi i\u00e7ine al\u0131veriyor ve birden zaman\u0131 unutuyoruz.\u201d \u2018Ligh\u2013t\u2019 kelimesini b\u00f6l\u00fcp araya ekledi\u011fi \u2018gh\u2019 harflerini kendi ba\u015flar\u0131na telaffuz etmek neredeyse imkans\u0131z. T\u00fcrk\u00e7edeki \u2018yumu\u015fak g\u2019 harfi gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Bu eklemeyi yaparak, Aram okuyucuya kelimeyi uzatman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 arat\u0131yor. \u0130ki sene sonra \u015fair Robert Duncan, bu k\u0131sac\u0131k \u015fiiri prestijli bir \u00f6d\u00fcle lay\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ve Aram 750 dolar kazan\u0131yor!<\/p>\n

\u2018Bir Ermeni Miras\u0131\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7enlerde Aram\u2019\u0131n eserlerine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapmaya karar verdim. Bu sefer kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 denemeleri okumaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. 1989\u2019da yay\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018Bir Ermeni Miras\u0131\u2019 adl\u0131 yaz\u0131s\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle diyordu:<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026 \u00fcnl\u00fc bir yazar\u0131n o\u011flu olarak\u2026 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir baban\u0131n g\u00f6lgesinde kalan bir o\u011flun vermek durumunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 o bilinen m\u00fccadeleyi ben de verdim. Herkes \u2018Sen William Saroyan\u2019\u0131n o\u011flu musun?\u2019 diye sorup dururdu fakat bu ilginin gururumu ok\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 falan yoktu. Ne de olsa babam ben de\u011fildim, o sadece benim babamd\u0131. Yirmili ya\u015flar\u0131mda \u00f6nemli bir ilerleme kaydettim ve insanlar bu soruyu sordu\u011funda ne diyece\u011fimi\u00a0 buldum. \u201cSen William Saroyan\u2019\u0131n o\u011flu musun?\u2019 diye sormaya devam ettiler, her ne kadar art\u0131k bir \u00e7ocuk olmasam da\u2026 \u201cHay\u0131r,\u201d diye cevap vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131m, \u201cO benim babam.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Aram, elbette basit bir dil oyunu ile bu durumun i\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kamayacakt\u0131! \u0130nsanlar meraklar\u0131n\u0131 gidermeye ve varsay\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 ortaya d\u00f6kmeye devam ettiler. \u201cGer\u00e7ekten mi! Ne kadar heyecan verici! O d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en iyi babas\u0131 olsa gerek!\u201d Aram, insanlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bu t\u00fcrden varsay\u0131mlar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle de\u011ferlendiriyordu:<\/p>\n

\u201cOnlar\u0131n demek istedi\u011fi, tabii ki de, \u2018\u0130nsanl\u0131k Komedisi\u2019 ve \u2018Aram Derler Ad\u0131ma\u2019 adl\u0131 romanlardan, yani birbirine kenetlenmi\u015f ailelerin hayatlar\u0131ndaki mutluluk ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri kutlayan o kitaplardan tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 bu yazar aileye d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn biri olmal\u0131yd\u0131\u2026 Ve insanlar bana babam\u0131n d\u00fcnyadaki en iyi baba oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylediklerinde buna inan\u0131rd\u0131m, ya da buna inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm\u2026 Babam\u0131n nas\u0131l bir baba oldu\u011fu \u2013 iyi mi k\u00f6t\u00fc m\u00fc \u2013 sorusuna gelirsek, ne desem ki, bir\u00e7ok baba gibi (ben de bir babay\u0131m) her ikisiydi de. (Unutmay\u0131n ki bu iki kitab\u0131, \u2018\u0130nsanl\u0131k Komedisi\u2019 ve \u2018Aram Derler Ad\u0131ma\u2019, evlenmeden ve \u00e7ocuk yapmadan \u00f6nce yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131). Bir baba olarak, bazen \u00e7ok iyiydi, bazense \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc.\u201d<\/p>\n

Aram\u2019\u0131n uzunca bir s\u00fcre babas\u0131n\u0131 kendi g\u00f6zleriyle g\u00f6r\u00fcp, ona kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi duygular\u0131 kendi deneyimleri do\u011frultusunda ke\u015ffetme \u015fans\u0131 olamam\u0131\u015f. \u201cNe de olsa bir \u00e7ocuk d\u00fcnyayla \u00e7eli\u015fmek istemez. Bu boyundan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir giri\u015fim olurdu! \u00c7ocuk d\u00fcnya taraf\u0131ndan kabul edilmenin yollar\u0131n\u0131 arar, d\u00fcnyada kendini evde hissetmek ister, a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131 bir ba\u015f parma\u011f\u0131 gibi \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 olmak istemez. Bu y\u00fczden ben de bana s\u00f6ylenenlere – babam\u0131n d\u00fcnyadaki en iyi baba oldu\u011funa \u2013 k\u0131smen inand\u0131m, ve b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.\u201d<\/p>\n

Aram\u2019\u0131n d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan etkilenerek kendini inand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu s\u00f6ylemden kurtulmas\u0131 ancak kendi kalemine sar\u0131lmas\u0131 ve aile kurmas\u0131yla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti. Bu noktada ge\u00e7mi\u015fle y\u00fczle\u015febilece\u011fini ve babas\u0131n\u0131 kendi \u00f6zg\u00fcn dilinde yeniden tan\u0131yabilece\u011fini anlad\u0131. \u201cVe bir g\u00fcn, 37 ya\u015f\u0131mda, evlenip \u00e7ocuk sahibi ve yazar olduktan sonra, babam hakk\u0131nda yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m ve ke\u015ffettim. Onun kim oldu\u011fundan \u00e7ok \u2013 bunu ba\u015f\u0131ndan beri derinlerimde bir yerde zaten biliyordum \u2013 kendimin kim oldu\u011funu ke\u015ffettim\u2026 Bu kadar sene boyunca insanlar\u0131n bana babam hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6ylediklerine k\u0131sman inanarak bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve i\u00e7imde tuttu\u011fum \u00e7ok \u015fey oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim. Ne kadar rahatlat\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131 bu kadar zaman gizli kalm\u0131\u015f o kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131 yazabilmek.\u201d<\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor ki William Saroyan gibi bir devin g\u00f6lgesinde b\u00fcy\u00fcmek, Aram i\u00e7in beraberinde \u00e7ok say\u0131da duygusal \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar getirmi\u015f. Fakat ge\u00e7mi\u015fle y\u00fczle\u015fme arzusu ve babas\u0131n\u0131 kendine ait bir dille yeniden tan\u0131ma arzusu, sadece kendi hikayesini de\u011fil belki de hepimizin hikayesini yazmas\u0131na vesile oldu. Aram\u2019\u0131n babas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 okurken ailenin insan hayat\u0131nda ne kadar y\u00fckl\u00fc, karma\u015f\u0131k duygusal miraslar b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlememek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Aram\u2019\u0131n anlat\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan en \u00f6nemli hususlardan biri ge\u00e7mi\u015fle bar\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in insan\u0131n kendine \u00f6zg\u00fcn bir dil geli\u015ftirme ihtiyac\u0131. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fin b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131 tatlara yenik d\u00fc\u015fmek, su\u00e7lamak ve mesafe koymak bir \u00e7o\u011fumuzun deneyimledi\u011fi ve belki de deneyimlemesi gereken bir s\u00fcre\u00e7. Netice de insan\u0131n kendi kimli\u011fini ke\u015ffetmesi engebeli yollardan ge\u00e7meden m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor. Bunu kendimize en yak\u0131n modeller olan ebeveynlerin etkisinde kalmadan ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmekse imkans\u0131z. Bu etkiden kurtulmaya \u00e7abalarken ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen birtak\u0131m hasarlar\u0131 anlamak ve onlara anlam y\u00fcklemek de bu s\u00fcrecin vazge\u00e7ilmez bir par\u00e7as\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u2018Lighght<\/strong>\u2019<\/p>\n

Aram\u2019\u0131n 1965\u2019te yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 o \u015fiire d\u00f6nelim: \u2018Lighght\u2019. Genelde bir \u015feyin hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki rol\u00fcn\u00fc veya \u00f6nemini kavramak i\u00e7in z\u0131tl\u0131klara ba\u015fvururuz. Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in yoklu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015fleriz, g\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fc gece, karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ysa ayd\u0131nl\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z. Aram ise her g\u00fcn kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kelimelerden biri olan \u0131\u015f\u0131k ile oynayarak, kelimeyi bozup \u00e7arp\u0131tarak, \u0131\u015f\u0131k kavram\u0131n\u0131 yeniden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemizi sa\u011fl\u0131yor. Telaffuz etmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan \u2018gh\u2019 sesiyle kelimeyi esneterek merak uyand\u0131r\u0131yor: Acaba \u0131\u015f\u0131k ile bu dil oyunu aras\u0131nda bir ba\u011flant\u0131 var m\u0131? Bir \u015feye daha \u00e7ok \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutarsak onu ayd\u0131nlatm\u0131\u015f m\u0131 oluruz? Yoksa anlamas\u0131 daha g\u00fc\u00e7 bir kavram haline mi getiririz? I\u015f\u0131k ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131k insana bir berrakl\u0131k getiriyor mu, yoksa bizi gizemli, sessiz ve idrak etmeyi bilmedi\u011fimiz e\u015fiklere mi ta\u015f\u0131yor? Dilde yer alan fakat \u00fczerinde fazla durmadan ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz, telaffuzu zor birtak\u0131m seslere dikkat \u00e7ekiyor. Babas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011frudan duygusal, samimi ve dostane anlat\u0131s\u0131na istenmeden verilmi\u015f bir cevap gibi geliyor Aram\u2019\u0131n minimalist \u015fiiri. Bir kelimeye \u00e7ok anlam y\u00fckl\u00fcyor, anlat\u0131 ve tasvirden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131yor, samimiyet yerine gizemi, ketumiyeti tercih ediyor.<\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7enlerde Aram\u2019\u0131n \u2018The Last Rites\u2019, yani \u2018Son Rit\u00fceller\u2019 adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131 okuma \u015fans\u0131m oldu. Aram bu kitab\u0131 14 Nisan 1981 g\u00fcn\u00fc babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendikten hemen sonra yazmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Yakla\u015f\u0131k bir ayl\u0131k d\u00f6nemi kapsayan bu kitapta hem babas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 hem de bu vesileyle kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 buluyor. Hen\u00fcz T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye \u00e7evrilmemi\u015f ama umar\u0131m \u00e7evrilir. Bir baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini, \u00f6l\u00fcm ve yas kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131c\u0131 bir cesaret ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle inceleyen say\u0131l\u0131 kitaplardan biri bu.<\/p>\n

Kitab\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle diyor Aram: \u201cBabam, William Saroyan, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir imaja sahip d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc bir yazard\u0131, hala da \u00f6yle. Ama o\u011flu olarak ben, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0131srarla tarif etti\u011fi o ki\u015fiden \u00e7ok daha farkl\u0131 birini tan\u0131d\u0131m. Bu herkese ait imajla benim ger\u00e7e\u011fim aras\u0131ndaki mesafe i\u015fte bu g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kitaba anlam katan bir ba\u015fka \u00f6zellik ise, onu yazarken Aram kendini evini kurmu\u015f ve \u00e7oktan iki \u00e7ocuk babas\u0131 olmu\u015ftu. Babal\u0131k kavram\u0131 onun i\u00e7in daha karma\u015f\u0131k bir hal alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Nitekim, g\u00fcnl\u00fck, evinde, 14 Nisan 1981 g\u00fcn\u00fc karde\u015fi Lucy\u2019den gelen bir telefonla ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Lucy, babalar\u0131n\u0131n prostat kanserinin karaci\u011ferine, ard\u0131ndan da kemiklerine yay\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberini veriyor. Aram en ba\u015fta ne hissedece\u011fini bilemiyor. Akl\u0131ndan bir\u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ge\u00e7erken ge\u00e7mi\u015ften kalan yaralar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlamadan edemiyor. Oturma odas\u0131nda e\u015fi Gailyn ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na durumu anlat\u0131yor, \u201c\u2026 hissiz bir \u015fekilde, biraz da uyu\u015fmu\u015f bir halde.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBu esnada Gailyn, 10 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z Strawberry\u2019nin \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.
\n\u201cCan\u0131m. \u00dcz\u00fcld\u00fcn m\u00fc?\u201d dedim.
\n\u201cBilmem\u2026\u201d dedi, sonra koltukta y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6teye d\u00f6n\u00fcp a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131.
\nArt\u0131k dayanamad\u0131m. Beni duyguland\u0131ran \u015fey babam\u0131n durumu muydu yoksa k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131nki mi bilemiyorum, ama g\u00f6zlerim dolmu\u015ftu ve hemen k\u0131z\u0131ma sar\u0131ld\u0131m.
\n\u201cOnu hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musun?\u201d diye sordum.
\n\u201cTabii ki,\u201d dedi.
\nHissetti\u011fi ac\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek bana huzur vermi\u015fti. Nihayetinde birinin \u00f6l\u00fcyor olmas\u0131\u00a0 do\u011fal bir olay ve payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en \u00f6nemli \u015feyleri, en \u00f6zel ve samimi anlar\u0131 hat\u0131ra getiriyor. Belki de bunun sebebi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn de samimi bir deneyim olmas\u0131d\u0131r, bu noktada gerisi bo\u015f.\u201d<\/p>\n

Gerisi bo\u015f. Hayatta varmas\u0131 en zor yarg\u0131lardan biri. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenmemi\u015f sorunlar, aile i\u00e7i s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u2026 William Saroyan\u2019\u0131n romanlar\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z konular hepsi. Ama bu anda, babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fi haberini ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu k\u0131r\u0131lma an\u0131nda Aram\u2019\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu derin bir anlat\u0131 veya hikayeden ba\u015fka bir \u015feydi. Belki o anda Aram\u2019\u0131n bir \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011fa ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131. \u00d6l\u00fcm her ne kadar korkun\u00e7 bir olay olsa bile duygular\u0131 samimi ve i\u00e7ten ya\u015famak i\u00e7in ge\u00e7ici bir imkan da sunuyordu.<\/p>\n

\u2018Lighght\u2019. O \u0131\u015f\u0131k, Aram\u2019\u0131n koltukta oturan k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi saf tepkideydi. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n tepkisi, Aram\u2019a \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn i\u00e7inde s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kalm\u0131\u015f o sakl\u0131 gizemleri hat\u0131rlatt\u0131. Nas\u0131l telaffuz edildiklerini bilmesek de an\u0131, zaman\u0131 uzatan o suskun sesleri f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131. O sesler ise Aram Saroyan\u2019\u0131n \u2018Son Rit\u00fceller\u2019 kitab\u0131na, bu vesileyle de hem babas\u0131 hem de kendiyle yeniden tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na bir vesile oldu.<\/p>\n

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Melih Levi\u00a0 Aram Saroyan, \u2018Son Rit\u00fceller\u2019 adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131 14 Nisan 1981 g\u00fcn\u00fc babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendikten hemen sonra yazmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Yakla\u015f\u0131k bir ayl\u0131k d\u00f6nemi kapsayan bu kitapta hem babas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 hem de bu vesileyle kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirme f\u0131rsat\u0131 buluyor. T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye \u00e7evrilmeyi bekleyen kitap, baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini, \u00f6l\u00fcm ve yas kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131c\u0131 bir cesaret ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle inceleyen say\u0131l\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":51253,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haberler","category-unluler"],"yoast_head":"\nO\u011fullar ve babalar\u0131 - Bati Ermenistan Ve Bati Ermenileri Sorunlari Ara\u015ftirmalar Merkezi<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/akunq.net\/tr\/?p=51251\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"O\u011fullar ve babalar\u0131 - Bati Ermenistan Ve Bati Ermenileri Sorunlari Ara\u015ftirmalar Merkezi\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Melih Levi\u00a0 Aram Saroyan, \u2018Son Rit\u00fceller\u2019 adl\u0131 kitab\u0131n\u0131 14 Nisan 1981 g\u00fcn\u00fc babas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendikten hemen sonra yazmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. 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